Gift giving is a two-way street, in that giver and
receiver experience the shared enjoyment of the exchange. Personally, gift
giving supplies me with an armload of self-gratification.
Gift giving is just one of the many ways you can show a person how you feel. You're not only giving just love but also gratitude and appreciation. I use it as a way to let someone know that I am thinking about them.
Gift giving is just one of the many ways you can show a person how you feel. You're not only giving just love but also gratitude and appreciation. I use it as a way to let someone know that I am thinking about them.
The smallest, out of the ordinary, unexpected
gift, if presented with a smile, will yield the biggest reactions. Gift
giving is both a benefit and a help.
To give is the same with sharing. And
to share is a relaxing act. Not only does it make a bond
grow deeper, but it also gives a person the feeling of being
kind and happy - because for most people, to see someone happy
multiplies their joy. The joy brings the feeling of goodness to the giver.
If you love
someone, you want to make sure you give them something they would really enjoy.
Ideally, you want to see that look of joyous surprise when they open the gift
and even before they say a word, you know it was perfect. But
that doesn't always work. It’s sad, really. You work so hard to find
just the right gift, and then it doesn't fit …or it isn't the right
colour … or it was broken in the box … or they already had one … or the
design doesn't match what they already have … worst of all, it wasn't
what they really wanted.
That’s the worst — to
give someone a gift they don’t really want. Nothing makes you feel worse.
They unwrap the gift and then there is a short pause — just a microsecond — but
in that moment you already know the truth. “Why, it’s beautiful,” they say. But
you can see the look in their eyes. You put on a brave front and try again. “Do
you really like it?” “Like it? I love it.” But you aren't fooled. It’s not what
they wanted. And drop by drop all the joy drains out of Christmas
Then
it came to my mind this week as I thought about the question—if I were going
to give someone a gift for Christmas, what would I give him that he would appreciate? The holidays are upon us, which means it's time to get
cracking and find some great sentimental gifts for our valued friends and
acquaintances.
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You know that well decorated food hamper? Or that old aged bottle of
whiskey? If you want to be the one who avoid sending
those cliched goodies, look no further! At Rayneau we
have some better gift ideas for you this year.
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